Saturday, January 1, 2011
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
I stumped upon a multiply site and found this piece of information for future brides and grooms. and! to be honest, the information given to be VERY interesting and useful. It was actually written in Malay, but I have translated it just so the readers of other races would also be able to read and better understand the Malay custom. Without dragging it any longer, I shall present to you the post(:
"First, before the bride walked into the marriage life, there are variety taboos. Old folks are so concerned about these taboos, such as for the benefit of prospective brides and grooms. It is not a duty but a word of Malay culture. Although the bride and groom now no longer look and practices the taboo, , some are really deemed appropriate and should be followed.
1. Do not go out with the couple for 40 days before the ceremony, people concerned about accusations. In addition, it seeks to control appetite and feeling nostalgic. In this way makes the bride look more radiant.
2. Do not go out as and when they like, to prevent getting cursed by those who have bad intentions.
3. A few months before the wedding, do not eat rice with gravy dish to prevent the distended stomach.
4. Avoid eating the smelly mistress like petai.
5. Do not stare into the mirror, especially after dusk to avoid the magic.
6. Do not empty the bowel and urinate simultaneously in the water because it will weaken the sex organs.
7. Avoid drinking carbonated water because it causes diabetes.
8. Avoid the bathroom at night as it is bad for body joints.
9. According to some customs, future brides and grooms would need to eat only once a day.
10. For the prospective groom, avoid wearing tight underwear at night and sleeping on the stomach as it is not good for the sex organ.
11. Do not eat too much seafood as it contains toxic.
12. Three months before getting married, go for massages so that brides and grooms have the energy.
13. Eat chicken eggs mixed with honey and black pepper once a week to add energy.
14. Drink ginger to expel air.
15. Do not indulge sex in his own way.
16. Sleep at least seven or eight hours a day.
17. Avoid drinking alcohol and smoking.
18. Avoid sunlight for fear of black skin and glowing at the wedding.
19. Do not drink soy because it is cold and is not good for the genitals.
20. Adopt a traditional medicinal food(jamu) as to prevent disappointment on the wedding night.
21. Do not show the bride to the family of a man before marriage.
22. Do not go out at night to avoid bad elements.
23. Avoid cutting of hair a week before the wedding.
24. Advisable to not live together yet if the marriage is at a 'nikah gantung' state.
25. Do not clear the wedding room as to avoid others betraying the couple.
26. Mind the language as to prevent hurting other peoples feelings.
27. Do not thread or pluck the eyebrows; as it minimizes the radiance on the dais.
28. Do not look at the mirror when being make-up as it minimizes the radiance on the dais.
29. Bride and groom are forbidden to speak while sitting on the dais as it is seen as less sweet.
30.Do not leave home without a destination or intention as to prevent any accident."
INTERESTING ENOUGH?! (:
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12:22 PM
Saturday, October 23, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
This entry goes out specially to you;
Muhd Fadley,
My one and only.
23.10.2010.
It's exactly one year and two months to go;
Before we leave this phase of the relationship,
And proceed up to the next step of our life.
M.A.R.R.I.A.G.E!
Dear Fiancè,
I really would like to thank you,
For standing by me still till today.
I won't deny that I may get on your nerves,
With my E.G.O, stubbornness and all.
But even after all that;
You still stood firmly to hold my hand,
And guide me through life patiently.
You're still here sticking by me;
Despite the fact that we took the oh-so-risky leap of faith;
Of getting together and making the promise,
To be by each others side through thick and thin.
Even when our friendship only turned five days old.
Y.E.S! F.I.V.E!
Honestly!
Noone thought we could make it this far,
And we've proved them W.R.O.N.G!
We're still together,
And still going strong.
Ps: YOU'RE STILL THE ONE AND WILL ALWAYS BE! ♥
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8:21 PM
Thursday, October 7, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
Happy Birthday, Love!!As the clock struck twelve, the fiance turned twenty four ♥
&& I surprised him with the above;
. a muffin as he is not a cake person,
. a photo frame with his photos,
. two balloons; one with number two and the other with four (:
. && a birthday card which was passed around for his workmates to sign.(not in photo)
Many more photos to come later!
Labels: Mrs Fad
10:47 AM
Saturday, June 26, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
Finally, I've learnt to ignore senseless peeps... A "sit down & talk" session for Adleyanna was fruitful... SHE reveals her worries while HE rolled out his assurance... HE even revealed mini secrets while SHE giggles at them...
To passerby, reader and other anonymous taggers... You can choose to continue posting baseless opinions while we can choose to delete them as we deem fit...
Adleyanna has peeps who have accepted and blessed our relationship... A couple of sour grapes can't turn the table...
Here's a quote from Mr Fad, "People take interest in our lives because we carry a weight in their respective lives... Or simply cause they can't get over us..."
PS: Pardon me for any mistakes in my language or spelling... Didn't score well fer my English and I hold just an 'O' level cert... =D
7:14 PM
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
Honestly.
I never imagined when we first met,
that someday you would be such an important part of my life.
You really are the person who knows me best;
including all my faults & shortcomings,
you still loved me the way I am.
You understand more about;
how I feel, how I think, how I react,
& how I handle the things in my life.
You know the difference between;
when I am just blue and feeling overwhelmed,
or when my life is really falling apart.
You help me define those differences & figure out the best way to get through.
You are always the first person I want to call when something good happens.
When I have a new idea, it's you whom I want to share my creativity with.
You are the person who always had faith in me when everyone else didn't.
You have loved me unconditionally in spite of all the mistakes I have made with my life.
You found a way to forgive me for what I put you through,
because you know a lot of it was just my pain blinding me to everything else.
I know you have felt that same pain just in different ways,
so you really do understand many times when others don't.
You are the best friend I never had;
a true soul mate who shares so many of my hopes and dreams.
You know when you need me;
I will be there for you,
& that I am stronger than you think.
I never want our relationship to feel like a burden that you must carry alone;
we have gone through a lot on our journey together so far,
& I always want to share the load so we can make it lighter for each other.
You are the best friend I have ever had;
& I value the hours we have spent,
both laughing and crying together.
I really wanna thank God for allowing our paths to cross
& giving me a wonderful loving partner like you.
Ps:
You are...
my best friend,
my fiance,
my future husband,
my lover,
my soul mate,
my dream partner,
my man,
my one true love,
the one I want to spend
the rest of my life with.
I vow to...
honor you,
cherish you,
love you,
respect you,
laugh with you,
cry with you,
support you in your goals,
hold you,
guide you & protect you.
HAPPY BELATED 3RD COURTSHIP ANNIVERSARY,
&
HAPPY BELATED 2ND ENGAGEMENT ANNIVERSARY.
ILY!
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11:47 AM
Monday, May 10, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
*claps*
Congratulations to me for successfully installing the application enabling me to post an entry via iPhone(:
I promise a proper entry soon! Cos its serious business of studying for now. Till the next time, lovelies <3
6:42 PM
Sunday, April 4, 2010
♥ For yesterday's memories, today's love & tomorrow's dreams, I love you.
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Guys will always check out other girls,
even if they make it less obvious when they're around their partner.
It does not mean they're considering leaving you for the girl on the bus,
it just comes to them without thinking.
So DON'T freak out when a guy looks at another girl,
it's just nature,
& they know you were ogling at the cute guy that just walked past.
and hey!
Guys can have female friends just like girls can have male friends,
& just because he gets a text from a girl does not mean he is cheating on you.
But if this does make things awkward,
TALK ABOUT IT (:
Extracted from a TAGS facebook status.PS: Indeed an eye opener for me.
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11:02 AM
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